Change: Are men REALLY capable of it?

Personally I don't really necessarily think anyone can "change", I think the core essense of people is what it is. I think that peopl adapt to situations accordingly, at least most people do. I think a man can cheat on one woman for his own reasons and then find another woman who he'd like to stay devoted to and not cheat on. Not all men sit around watching porn and playing video games, just like not all women get their hair done monthly and have acrylics at all times. That's kind of stereotypical don't you think? I mean there are Cowboys in montana that have never turned on a video game system, or a porno, who wake up at the crack of dawn every day to go work on their ranches. Don't give up hope girl, you will find the right guy for you. Greatness is never easily gotten, you have to go through some losers to find your special someone. Good luck, I hope you can find what you're looking for. :)